Aug 102016
 

COMING CHRISTMAS 2016!

Please check back for pre-order info coming soon!

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Like the best Christmas gifts, Sassafras Lowrey’s fantasia of a story is delightful, heartfelt, and exactly what you were hoping for, even if you didn’t know it. Ze has created the perfect queer holiday stocking stuffer for everyone on your list, whether they’re naughty, nice, or something in between.”

—Michael Thomas Ford, author of Suicide Notes and Lily

#AWP17

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Aug 102016
 

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This week AWP announced what panels have been accepted for the 2017 conference, and the panel I am included on “Bringing LGBTQ Folk Forms into Our Literature” (so honored to have been asked to be part of this!!!) was accepted!

I’ve never been to AWP before – for whatever reason (probably a whole lot of internalized imposter syndrome) I’ve always considered it to be a space that’s out of my league, or kinda just in a different stadium than the one I play (write?) in! So here I am humming “playing with the big boys now” from the prince of Egypt movie (because that’s how I manage my self doubt!)  and planning my trip down to the conference in February!

I had thought about just going down for the day of my panel, but the conference registration costs the same regardless of if I go for one day, or the whole conference soooooo I’m going to go for the whole experience. Daddy booked my hotel last night (because that kind of thing totally overwhelms me) since shockingly to me hotels close to the conference were already booking up! Daddy also reminded me there are pandas at the DC zoo, so I definitely am going to need to take a little field trip from AWP to visit some pandas!!!!

Have you ever been to AWP? I would love to hear from other queer writers about what your experience has been like, and any suggestions you have for making the most out of the conference would be very welcome! All of the accepted workshops look AMAZING- it definitely seems like the challenge will be deciding what to attend!!!

Aug 022016
 

Is it already August?! I don’t know how this happened, but it means we’re closer to the autumn (and getting closer to our trip to Disney World) so i’m not complaining!

What was I up to in July???

  • Last week a reader sent me this AWESOME picture from Powell’s Bookstore in Portland, Oregon!  If you see my books out in the world please send/tweet/instragram pictures @ me!!! One of my favorite things is seeing my books out in the world!

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*  My July started with reading as part of The Hustle reading series at WORD bookstore. The event is focused on the real working styles of writers, how we pay our bills, and how we organize our work. Definitely a fun event to be part of!
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* In July Daddy and went on  gaycation up to Provincetown with our dogs. I went offline (other than to post cute dog beach photos) and it was EXACTLY what i needed. I spent every day playing in the water, having fun with my family, reading lots of books, and not checking my email! Definitely the break I needed.  I kayaked for the first time – we went out in the ocean all the way from town out to a lighthouse, and were surrounded by seals! Unfortunately the photos of seals didn’t turn out so you’ll just have to take my word for it. I did upload approximately three million pictures of my dogs on Facebook and Instagram so definitely check those out!

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* For those of you who follow my dog writing – I’ve  been taking on online summer intensive training course from Absolute Dogs (based in the UK) with Charlotte. The class is specifically for reactive dogs and is game focused.It’s been fun to stretch my dog training brain muscles this summer and have an excuse to spend lots of time everyday training.  We’ve been seeing a LOT of success from the class, and I’ll be writing all about our experience later this summer on Dogster!
* Surprisingly I came home from gaycation to several invitations to write focused on all kinds of things from being a teenage runaway, being a little and my D/s dynamic with Daddy, to queer literature (clearly i should go on gaycation more often)! So I’ve hit the ground running with writing since being back in the city. It’s fun to be writing so much again — several of these pieces should be releasing in the next few months – i’ll update here, and as always on facebook/twitter when different things go to press.
* In July my PETS column at Curve Magazine was an emotional one talking about the pets of Orlando victims, and how as queer pet-parents we need to think about the safety of our own pets always, but especially in the aftermath of Orlando should something happen to us.
* The big news from July was finishing my leather/queer Christmas novella A Little Queermas Carol that will be coming out this holiday season! This has been a fun little project that grabbed my imagination and I”m so looking forward to being able to share it with all of you! I have been working with the fabulous artist KD Diamond (who did the cover art for my novel Roving Pack) to come up with something extra special for this novella (which I hope to be able to show you soon!)! Just this weekend I locked in the final version of the text and sent it off to be laid out! I feel so lucky to have readers that get as excited as I do about projects like this – and I can’t wait to hear what y’all think! especially the ageplayers!
* I’ve been reading lots of books – and keeping with my book a week goal. I’ve now surpassed my Goodreads 2016 goal of reading 50 books (currently at 56!). Follow me on Goodreads to checkout what I’m reading! Definitely my favorite books I read in July were  “Pit Bull: The Battle over an American Icon” and “Like a Woman” both of which were stellar in (obviously) different ways.
* Popculture babble: I tried to get into playing pokemon go because everyone here in Brooklyn was playing but I got a little bit board faster than I did with nekoatsume (since I don’t know the characters well). I did however (i don’t know how I’ve never seen it!) discover the movie Wreck It Ralph- which I’m pretty obsessed with now. Also so glad that season 6 of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic has turned itself around after a fairly disappointing start. I’m refusing to see Finding Dory because the reviews tell me it’s all a bio family reunification plot (eww) and also avoiding secret life of pets – because I hate stories of lost pets, I just want an hour and a half of them playing in their apartments (essentially an extended trailer would have made me happy)
UPCOMING: 
* This fall i’ll be facilitating a LGBT Fiction reading group at The Center For Fiction here in NYC! It’s going to be really fun! Click here for more info about the class here as well as information about how to register!I know space is filling up quickly so please spread the word and register soon! We’re going to be reading: 1) Under the Udala Tree, Chinelo Okparanta 2) God In Pink, Hasan Namir 3) Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit, Jeanette Winterson 4) Like Son, Felicia Luna Lemus 5) Life is Wonderful, People Are Terrific, Meliza Bañales
*  I’ll have a story in the print issue of Dogster Magazine this August – which should be hitting newsstands any day! This article is similar to some of mine that went viral last spring encouraging dog parents to obey leash laws to keep the world safe for reactive and other special needs dogs.
* Stay tuned for information about pre-ordering A Little Queermas Carol this fall!!!!

UPCOMING STUFF!

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I took intentional time off from writing big projects  after the release of Lost Boi to let myself have the opportunity to enjoy the process of releasing that book. I’ve played around with different book-length projects but what really stuck was a project that took me a little bit by surprise! I ended up creatively falling in love with a novella (i’ve never written one of these before!) titled  “A little Queermas Carol.” It’s a queer/leather/christmas story- and I’m so excited to be able to share it with readers THIS CHRISTMAS season! I got the manuscript back from my copyeditor and am working on final edits of the novella now. I’m also working with the amazing KD Diamond (who did the cover art for Roving Pack) to design the cover for the novella. I got to see the preliminary sketch this week and thrilled with it! Stay tuned for more novella news in the upcoming months!

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I’m going to be reading as part of The Hustle event at WORD Bookstore on June 10th! THE HUSTLE is a free every-other-month series that invites writers to discuss the hours they keep, the habits that support their work, how they pay the bills, how they read & write, the importance of community and much more. I’ve also been told there are donuts!

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This fall i’ll be facilitating a LGBT Fiction reading group at The Center For Fiction here in NYC! It’s going to be really fun! Click here for more info about the class here as well as information about how to register!

Jun 112016
 

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In just one week, RADCLYFFE will open as part of the Trans Theater Festival at The Brick!!!  The piece has grown and changed since its last production in NYC at the Fresh Fruit Festival, and I’m delighted for the opportunity to present it in a festival with so many other talented trans theater artists! I hope to see you there!

Radclyffe Hall, notorious author of the censored “Well of Loneliness,” swaggered their way through the early 20th century. This pseudo-historical solo performance/seance weaves together stories from Radclyffe Hall’s life and times with what England’s second most notorious invert would have to say about trans/queer life today, such as: “what ever happened to ‘romantic friendships’? What the hell is a ‘genderqueer?! And where can an invert get a good haircut in this town?!?”

3 NIGHTS ONLY!
Saturday, June 18 @ 7:30pm
Wednesday, June 22 @ 7pm
Saturday, June 25 @ 4:15pm (PSST this is my BIRTHDAY and I would love to sell out!!!)
Click here for tickets

 

Jun 072016
 

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Sure, I’m sad/disappointed to have lost last night, but YOU: the queer freaks, genderf*cks, perverts, littles, punks, and runaways and your love for, and commitment to my books means more than any award ever could! so really, I kinda feel like the biggest winner after all even w/o the plexiglass trophy <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

 

+ my publisher is the sweetest

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also my partner Kestryl and I looked fabulous on the red carpet, and I had an amazing night hanging out with some of my favorite queer authors!

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HUGE congratulations to all the authors whose books were finalists and to the winners!

May 092016
 

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Is it already May?! I completely failed at writing and posting my April blog oops!!!!! Well, better late than never I suppose. April was amazing and super busy. 

The month started with an AMAZING trip to New Orleans to attend and present at the Saints & Sinners Queer Literary Conference where I was on a panel about the future of queerness WITH Dorothy Allison who is basically my femme hero, moderated a panel on writing as activism and read from Lost Boi.  I also got to attend a bunch of interesting workshops – including a master class with Dorothy Allison.

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I don’t really enjoy conferences in general – I think I’m too much of an introvert for them, but Saints & Sinners is one that I make an exception for! This was my second time going and while I would love to see the conference be able to continue to grow and diversity the conference attendees it is really the only place where you can sit in a room full of LGBTQ authors and talk craft and identity. I live tweeted most of the conference and you can check out my experiences of panels and workshop on Twitter under the hashtag #SAS16

I feel like I left this years conference really inspired to keep thinking about what kinds of stories I’m most interested in telling and how I can make that happen.

Check out this cute picture of us together!!!

I also got some fun vacation time in New Orleans after the conference with my partner. We stayed In12472462_10208093861560467_4486906060727132742_n a super cute hotel with a tiny balcony in a grapefruit tree! During the conference I tried to write out there just because it felt so Romantic – alas I just write my best on the subway here in NYC but it was beautiful. We did a lot of tourist sight seeing kinds of things-cemetery tour, ghost tour (yes I really saw a ghost)  on a swamp tour where we got to see the bayou  which is an ecosystem unlike anything I’ve ever seem! For sure a highlight of that for me was getting to see a real live g12932849_10208109132782238_3261197921258635831_nator!  Did you know they eat marshmallows?! It was like seeing a living dinosaur! It wasn’t until I looked back at my photos that I realized just how big that gator was too! New Orleans was Definitely the 10422319_10208109133142247_4022938896028925336_nkind of vacation fun I was in need of to rejuvenate a little from the stress of my muggle job. Also, we went to this SUPER creepy park13062364_10208248263940430_8261810606439241340_n called “Storybook Land” that was recommended by a fellow queer leather person and OMG SO CREEPY!!! Totally the kind of place that nightmares are born aka i LOVED it!

I ended April with a long-weekend self imposed staycation writing retreat. It was really productive and I was able to finish writing the first draft of the queer, leather christmas novella that I’ve been playing around with for the past few months. I got the first draft finished and now getting to do my favorite thing – edit/revise! This first edit I’m working on now is really about insuring consistency. I made a little table for myself to track names/pronouns/pets/flagging – y’know the literary priorities, at least for me. This was a fun little project – not sure where it will live yet, stay tuned!

Alas I kinda gave up on my Neko Atsume cats  but I have  been  keeping up with my Goodreads reading challenge of finishing a book a week! My favorite book I read in April  actually kept me company on the flights to/from New Orleans and is Meliza Banales’ “Life Is Wonderful People Are Terrific” this book is a finalist for the Lammys this year and is super rad on so many levels – definitely suggest everyone check it out!   In random pop culture news – Did I already mention how good Zootopia was? Seriously, if you haven’t seen that movie you should!!! I also really enjoyed The Jungle Book – it was visually stunning, and also REALLY scary! I actually jumped and shrieked at one point in the movie! I’m of course a sucker for all things Disney but these two are definitely stand out films that I recommend.

I’m getting SOOOOOOOOOO excited about the Lambda Literary Awards. I’ve got my fancy dress all picked out! The awards are the highlight of my literary year – the chance to be in the same room with so many incredible queer authors is pretty dreamy, and it’s overwhelming and thrilling to have Lost Boi as a finalist this year alongside so many super fabulous queer books! Last week I get to join some of the awesome local to NYC Lammy  finalists for a reading at the Leslie Lohan Museum
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Besides working on my novella, I’ve been keeping busy writing pieces for Curve Magazine and Dogster! I will have more articles in both of those publications coming in May including fun dog13055449_10208197229944612_4060127616261139176_nproduct reviews, and my take on trending topics in canine news! Want to stay updated on What I’m writing ? Follow me on Twitter /Facebook – I try to always share things out there plus a whole lot of pictures of my furry kiddos, and photos from  little adventures I go on which this spring has involved lots of trips to see cherry blossoms and my local zoo!

xoxo

Sassafras

Apr 262016
 

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I spoke this morning at the press conference with National LGBTQ Task Force and  True Colors Fund for the launch of the new “At The Intersections: A Collaborative Resource on LGBTQ Youth Homelessness ” Report. I was thrilled to have the opportunity to author the section on “Redefining Families” which addresses the important role queer families play in the lives of homeless LGBTQ youth, and how essential it is for service providers to understand and respect those created families. The section I wrote also included the story of awesome homeless queer youth advocate Independence Taylor.

Below is the transcript of my statement this morning on the conference call discussing the importance of intersectionality when talking about LGBTQ youth homelessness, the important role that The Task Force’s first report which was excerpted in Kicked Out played with grounding LGBTQ youth homelessness as an epidemic!

 

Sassafras Lowrey on “At The Intersections: A Collaborative Resource on LGBTQ Youth Homelessness” True Colors Fund & National LGBTQ Task Force Press Conference April 26, 2016 :

My name is Sassafras Lowrey and I am a queer author based in Brooklyn, New York. I grew up in Oregon and when I was in high school  I ran away from home after the physical abuse intensified when I came out, and then a couple months later I was kicked out by the adult friends whose home I fled to when they discovered I was queer, leaving me no choice but to couch surf in my semi-rural community. I survived because I created queer family with other homeless  kids whose lives mirrored my own.  I built my own family, creating a family that amongst other things taught me how to navigate social service systems as an out and proud queer person. The  creation and ongoing support  of that queer family is what not only helped me to survive, but is what inspired me to dedicate my life writing and advocacy work on behalf of current and former homeless LGBTQ youth.

My  literary work has predominately  been framed around centering the importance of queer families that we as LGBTQ people create, and so I was thrilled when I was invited to write the section on “Redefining Families.” For this powerful new report.

I  believe that it is not only important, but essential to approach all areas of work with homeless LGBTQ youth from an intersectional lens. Too often, I have heard people say “LGBTQ youth homelessness doesn’t happen in my community” or “here is THE best practice that should be employed when working with homeless LGBTQ youth” both are dangerous limiting statements. We know that LGBTQ youth homelessness is an epidemic that impacts ALL communities across our country.  As such, if we are going to talk about LGBTQ youth homelessness, and the experiences, and needs of youth who are currently running away or being thrown out of their homes and communities, we must be committed to naming that this experience happens in every community, but we also cannot assume LGBTQ homeless youth to be a monolithic group of young people, or that solutions to ending the epidemic can take a one-sized-fits all approach. For example, my needs as a white, semi-rural, runaway genderqueer identified teen in the early 2000s looked very different than some of my peers who were genderqueer and cisgender youth of color living on the streets in the city where I moved to while couch surfing, AND all of our needs and experiences looked different than those of  youth today. As we are talking about LGBTQ youth homelessness, we must remain aware of, and attentive to, the ways in which homelessness intersects with racism, classism, homophobia, transphobia, abilism, and sexism impact the lives of individual homeless youth.

In 2010 i edited the two-time  American Library Association Honored and Lambda Literary Award finalist, Kicked Out Anthology – this book brought together current an former homeless LGBTQ youth ranging in age from youth who were currently street homeless at the time of publication, to individuals who had been forced to leave home as teenagers pre-Stonewall, as well as the perspective of advocates and policy leaders. Kicked Out was the first book of its kind, born directly from my frustration of not being able to find any books that spoke directly and in the words of survivors  to the experience of being runaway, throwaway, kicked our queer youth. I was thrilled that the National LGBTQ Task Force agreed to allow me to excerpt a portion of their groundbreaking report “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Youth: An Epidemic of Homelessness” into the anthology. This excerpt provided my readers which have included countless college students, service providers, and most importantly to me youth who are experiencing homelessness and looking for connection, a nuanced understanding of the scope and scale of the epidemic of LGBTQ youth homelessness that is needed in order to understand this is not something that just happens to the occasional youth, but as a crisis impacting our entire country.  The report supported us in framing queer youth homelessness as the epidemic that it is.

I believe the strength in this new resource guide is the way it provides a focus on the importance of intersectionality when talking  about issues facing homeless LGBTQ youth, and more importantly the way it queers service provision by highlighting and prioritizing the needs of youth voices, framing the epidemic of LGBTQ youth homelessness as a core issue facing the LGBTQ community as a whole, recognizing that current and formerly homeless LGBTQ youth are our current and future movement leaders, and prioritizing the need to create space for us to be out about our experience of homelessness.

In the section I authored on “Redefining Families” , I focused on the lifesaving role that created families play in the lives of homeless queer youth. An embodiment of LGBTQ youth resilience is creation of our own families. It is essential that service providers respect youths’ definitions of family, and who they consider family in the same ways they understand the importance of respecting the chosen names and pronouns of any youth. To NOT  respect chosen families is to reinact the same identity rejection many  homeless LGBTQ youth  have experienced from their   biological families.  Queer kinship networks, and created families in all of their diverse forms are frequently a primary source of support for LGBTQ youth experiencing homelessness, and those queer families take many forms. Some, but not all mirror “traditional” family structures using terms like brother, mother, uncle, or daughter for example. Service providers should talk  with youth about what their queer families mean to them!

The highlight of writing this section on redefining family was the chance to incorporate a current youths story. Independence, a homeless a-gender teen in California shares in their own words what creating queer family has meant  to them, and I want to end this morning with their words  “If you haven’t tried to pull in a homeless queer youth into your life or community, now is the time. We need everybody to help get us support and to allow us to grow.… Pull us in and give us love and support and we will flourish.”

Thank you

March!

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Mar 292016
 

March has been a really exciting and fantastic month! Without a doubt the most exciting thing that happened this month has been learning that Lost Boi is a finalist for the Lambda Literary Awards!!! I’m so thrilled that Lost Boi has been recognized in this way, and I’m really looking forward to being at the awards here in NYC on June 6th! I’ve already got my dress picked out!

GeorgetownEarlier this month I had the fantastic opportunity to hang out with some Georgetown students who are in NYC on an alternative queer spring break!!! We talked queer literature, activism, identity politics, and of course, favorite Disney characters!!!!!

 

Also this month I learned about this fabulous indie queer artist Jem Eli was so inspired by reading Lost Boi that they wrote and recorded a SONG inspired by the novel! This is by far one of the coolest things that I’ve ever heard – and such an incredible honor to have had something I wrote inspire art that someone else is creating! The song is so amazing, and such a beautiful reinterpretation of the book! You can listen to the song below, read all the lyrics here  and purchase a copy – it’s also going to be included on a new indie queer album.


I wrote several articles for Dogster.com this month – one of which went dog world viral. That was a new experience for me, filled with complicated feelings especially as the comments went wild as people started saying really cruel and unfounded things about my family. Biggest lesson of all something I already know but sometimes have a hard time following – don’t. read. the. comments.

Right now I’m getting ready to fly down to New Orleans this week for the Saints & Sinners queer literary festival! I’m going to be moderating a panel on writing as activism, reading from Lost Boi and on a panel about the future of queer culture and writing!  I really think it’s going to be a fantastic weekend, and I’m really looking forward to hanging out with so many other queer authors!

Ok i’m off to figure out how many dresses I can fit into my suitcase!

xoxo